Why We Keep Getting Marriage Wrong: How We Can Get It Right

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it can also be hard. In Why We Keep Getting Marriage Wrong, author Eli Finkel argues that we've been approaching marriage all wrong. We've been focusing on the wrong things, and we've been setting ourselves up for failure.

Finkel offers a new way to think about marriage, one that is based on research and experience. He shows us how to build a marriage that is strong, lasting, and fulfilling. Here are some of the key insights from the book:

Not A Partnership: Why We Keep Getting Marriage Wrong & How We Can Get It Right

by Jill Savage

4.9 out of 5

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• Marriage is not about finding your soulmate. There is no such thing as a perfect partner, and we shouldn't expect our spouse to meet all of our needs. Instead, we should focus on finding someone who is compatible with us and who we can build a life with.
• Conflict is normal in marriage. Every couple experiences conflict, and it's not a sign that your marriage is failing. In fact, conflict can be a healthy part of a relationship, as it can help you to grow and learn together.
• Communication is key. One of the most important things you can do in a marriage is to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. This means being able to talk about your feelings, needs, and desires, and being able to listen to your partner without judgment.
• Forgiveness is essential. Everyone makes mistakes, and it's important to be able to forgive your partner when they hurt you. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you condone their behavior, but it does mean that you're willing to let go of the anger and resentment that you're holding onto.
• Marriage is a journey. There will be ups and downs along the way, but the important thing is to keep moving forward together. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it takes work and effort to make it last.

Why We Keep Getting Marriage Wrong is a must-read for anyone who is married, or who is thinking about getting married. Finkel offers a realistic and refreshing look at marriage, and he provides practical advice that can help you to build a strong and lasting relationship.

Not A Partnership: Why We Keep Getting Marriage Wrong & How We Can Get It Right

by Jill Savage

4.9 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	1529 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	145 pages
Lending	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported

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